BOILING WATER

A child complains to his father about his life and asking why lives it feels so hard to him. It doesn't know how facing it and nearly gives up. He was weary for fight.  Seems to be every time one problem is finished, arise new problem.

His father, a cooky, taking him to kitchen. He fills 3 pans with water and puts it upon damps down. After water at that pan boil.  He puts carrot in first pan, egg at second pan and he puts powder coffee at last pan. He lets it boils without get word. The child gags and waiting impatiently, think up what do being worked by fathers.

After 20 minutes, fathers switches off to damp down. He setting apart carrot and puts it at bowl, lifting egg and placing it at the other bowl, and pours coffee at another bowl. Then He asks to his child,  "What do you see, son?"  "Carrot, egg,  and coffee" answer the child. His father asks him to hover and asks him to feeling that carrot. He does it and feeling that carrot feels soft. His father then asks him to take egg and breaks it. After discarding its skin, he gets a harden egg. Last, his father asks him to taste coffee. He smiles while taste coffee with its typical aroma.

Afterwards, the child asks,  "What does it mean about all this, Father?" His father tell him that they have faced same handicap, poaching, but each point out reaction that variably. Carrot before stewed strength, hard and not breakable. But afters is poached, carrot becomes tender and soft. Fragile previous egg. Its flimsy eggshell protect its content that as liquid as. But afters is poached, its content becomes hard. Coffee powder experiences changing unique one. After is in stewing water, coffee powder revamp that water. 

"Which one are you?," ask his father.  "While problem come to you, how can you handdle it?  What are you carrot, egg or coffee?" How about you? Are you carrot that apparently hard, but with marks sense grief and handicap, you give up, as soft and your fading. Are you egg, one that initially have tender heart? With soul one that dynamic, but afters marks sense death, broken heart, separate or dismissal becomes hard and rigorous. From outside visible same, but do you become bitter and hard with soul and rigorous heart? Or are you coffee powder? Coffee powder revamps hot water, something that evoking painfulness, to reach its maximal taste on temperature 100 degree Celcius. While water reach hottest temperature, coffee feels to get relish. If you are powder of coffee, while the situation become gets bad, you will be getting better and make situation around you also get better.

TRUST HIS HEART

God is Too wise to be mistaken.God is too good to be unkindSo, When you don't understand And When you can't see His plan and When you can't trace His hand
TRUST HIS HEART
"The LORD bless you and keep you;the LORD make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you;the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace."

IF ONE DAY

To all my DL's in HD, especially for Agi, Ventri, Yan, My Daddy Parma, Sri, Wulan, Budi, and others.

If one day you feel like
crying...

Call me.
I don't promise that
I will make you laugh,
But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away-
Don't be afraid to call me.
I don't promise to ask you to
stop...
But I can run with you.

If one day you don't want to
listen
to anyone...
Call me.
I promise to be there for you.
And I promise to be very quiet.

But if one day you call...
And there is no answer...
Come fast to see me.
Maybe I need you.

If I ever ignored you.

I'm Sorry...

The Tortoise and the Hare

Once upon a time a tortoise and a hare had an argument about who was faster.They decided to settle the argument with a race. They agreed on a route andstarted off the race.
The hare shot ahead and ran briskly for some time. Then seeing that he wasfar ahead of the tortoise, he thought he'd sit under a tree for some timeand relax before continuing the race.
He sat under the tree and soon fell asleep. The tortoise plodding on overtook him and soon finished the race, emerging as the undisputed champ. The hare woke up and realized that he'd lost the race. The moral of the story is that slow and steady wins the race.
This is the version of the story that we've all grown up with.
But then recently, someone told me a more interesting version of this story. It continues. The hare was disappointed at losing the race and he did some soul-searching. He realized that he'd lost the race only because he had been overconfident, careless and lax. If he had not taken things for granted, there's no way the tortoise could have beaten him. So he challenged the tortoise to another race. The tortoise agreed.
This time, the hare went all out and ran without stopping from start to finish. He won by several miles. The moral of the story? Fast and consistent will always beat the slow and steady. If you have two people in your organization, one slow, methodical and reliable, and the other fast and still reliable at what he does, the fast and reliable chap will consistently climb the organizational ladder faster than the slow, methodical chap.
It's good to be slow and steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable.But the story doesn't end here. The tortoise did some thinking this time,and realized that there's no way he can beat the hare in a race the way itwas currently formatted. He thought for a while, and then challenged thehare to another race, but on a slightly different route.
The hare agreed. They started off. In keeping with his self-made commitmentto be consistently fast, the hare took off and ran at top speed until hecame to a broad river. The finishing line was a couple of kilometers on theother side of the river.
The hare sat there wondering what to do. In the meantime the tortoisetrundled along, got into the river, swam to the opposite bank, continuedwalking and finished the race.
The moral of the story? First identify your core competency and then change the playing field to suit your core competency.
The story still hasn't ended.
The hare and the tortoise, by this time, had become pretty good friends andthey did some thinking together. Both realized that the last race could havebeen run much better.
So they decided to do the last race again, but to run as a team this time.They started off, and this time the hare carried the tortoise till the riverbank. There, the tortoise took over and swam across with the hare on his back. On the opposite bank, the hare again carried the tortoise and they reached the finishing line together. They both felt a greater sense of satisfaction than they'd felt earlier.
The moral of the story? It's good to be individually brilliant and to havestrong core competencies; but unless you're able to work in a team andharness each other's core competencies, you'll always perform below parbecause there will always be situations at which you'll do poorly andsomeone else does well.
Teamwork is mainly about situational leadership, letting the person with therelevant core competency for a situation take leadership.
There are more lessons to be learnt from this story. Note that neither thehare nor the tortoise gave up after failures.The hare decided to work harder and put in more effort after his failure.The tortoise changed his strategy because he was already working as hard ashe could. In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it is appropriate towork harder and put in more effort. Sometimes it is appropriate to changestrategy and try something different. And sometimes it is appropriate to doboth.
The hare and the tortoise also learnt another vital lesson. When we stop against a rival and instead start competing against the situation,we perform far better.

DREAMS BIG, BIG THINGS HAPPEN

DREAMES BIG… AND DIDN’T HAVE FORGOTTEN YOUR DREAM.

ALTHOUGH you had not achieved your DREAM, FAR MORE GOOD had the BIG DREAM AND tried to achieve the DREAM, THAN dreamed SMALL AND achieved the SMALL DREAM.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SUCCESS PERSON AND VERY SUCCESS PERSON IS THE MEASUREMENT OF THE DREAM.

VERY MUCH you took the DECISION, don't do WHAT that was done by the LOSER… I.E changed thoughts AFTER taking the DECISION. The DIFFERENCE BETWEEN the WINNER AND the LOSER DETERMINE BY the LINE FINISH. the WINNER did not care WHETHER he crossed the LINE FINISH in the FIRST PLACE OR THE LAST PLACE. that he THINK ABOUT was to cross THE LINE . THE LOSER stopped BEFORE FINISH. THE LOSER ran 95 METRE from THE MATCH 100 METRE EVERY DAY IN living THEY.